Do you ever find yourself telling your spouse they’re doing something wrong—when deep down, you know it’s really just not how you would do it? 3 Thoughts For You: 1. Preferences Aren’t Universal Truths We often confuse personal preferences with the "right" way to do things. This can make our spouse feel criticized instead of understood. 2. Focus on How It Impacts You Instead of pointing out what they’re doing "wrong," share how a change could positively impact you and your feelings. This shifts