Decolonizing Love on Instagram: "Monogamy became the social norm as a way to control female sexuality and ensure clear lineage, particularly after the agricultural revolution when land ownership and male labor became central. Though monogamy is relatively recent, it was globalized through European colonization. In many cultures, s*xuality was more fluid, and women weren’t always expected to be tied to one man for life. Historically, men had more freedom with non-marital partners, while women wer